Training and mentoring for adopters/carers to create a more harmonious and enjoyable family life
Hi I’m Gill Tree and maybe like me you adopted/fostered to bring more joy and fulfilment into your life, but in reality the stress of the challenging behaviour from your child(ren) has left you feeling desperate and hopeless.
Or you may be a social worker seeking help for such a family. In which case select the For Agencies tab above.
A parenting approach called Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) transformed my relationship with my son and shifted the dynamics in our home – so much so that I became a practitioner of NVR. I have supported hundreds of adopters and carers, bringing harmony and joy back into their lives.




It is likely that you are here because you are desperate to get life back onto an even keel or that you are struggling with your children’s behaviour. (Or you are a professional looking for support for a family). You may want to help with a child who is aggressive, manipulative, controlling, angry, defiant, violent or oppositional.
Adoption Academy is well placed to provide support for adopters/special guardians due to my personal and professional experience.
My lived experience of child to parent violence, attachment disorder and blocked care, provides me with a unique empathy and understanding for other parents and carers.
I have worked with over 120 families and provided 14 NVR group programmes and hundreds of days of training and workshops. I am a member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Therapies (BABCP) and The NVR Association.

Let me help you make lasting change to the challenging behaviour
Previously, a stressed parent myself when I adopted my son in 2011, a highly traumatised and challenging 3 year old.
Originally a stress management trainer to industry, I provided resilience programmes to families and now specialise in mentoring parents of violent, aggressive and controlling children. CAPVA (Child and adolescent to parent violence and abuse) is more prevalent that you might imagine.
Gill is a very competent and insightful coach who brings her vast experience and knowledge to the course so that parents have the ability to relate their personal challenges to the material and examples that Gill provides. Gill went to great lengths to understand the challenges our children present with and then made sure that the content and examples used during the sessions would help us to understand and address those challenges better.
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