Are you struggling with your child’s behaviour?

Hi, I’m Gill Tree and having been a stressed parent myself, I know what it’s like to tread on eggshells around your child’s challenging behaviour. A parenting approach called Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) transformed my relationship with my son and shifted the dynamics in our home – so much so that I became a practitioner of NVR.

Since starting Stressed Parent in 2021, I have supported hundreds of parents and families, many with a child diagnosed with ADHD, ASD or FASD, bringing harmony and joy back into their lives. Let me help you find that same confidence, using proven practical tools and strategies that can start to work immediately,

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Hi, I'm Gill

It is likely that you are here because you are desperate to get life back onto an even keel or that you can’t cope with your children’s behaviour. You may want to help a child who is aggressive, manipulative, controlling, angry, defiant, violent, oppositional or want to get control back over screens. 

My  parenting programme: From Hostility to Harmony is based on Psychologist Haim Omer’s Non Violent Resistance. I am proud that much of my work to date has been with adopters and funded by the UK Government’s Adoption Support Fund. I am also a Neurodevelopment Practitioner and can help your child feel more comfortable in their bodies and reduce their meltdowns. I am also  trained in SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions).

I am a member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Therapies (BABCP) and The NVR Association. 

Let me help you make lasting change to the challenging behaviour

Previously, a stressed parent myself when I adopted my son in 2011, a highly traumatised and challenging 3 year old.

Originally a stress management trainer to industry, I provided resilience programmes to families and now specialise in mentoring parents of violent, aggressive and controlling children. CAPVA (Child and adolescent to parent violence and abuse) is more prevalent that you might imagine.

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The course has completely surpassed our expectations – it has saved our lives! We were at rock bottom – both depressed, stressed, and feeling hopeless and pessimistic about the future. We had just had a traumatic evening with our son when we logged on for our first session. By the end of even the first session, my husband looked and sounded more like his old self – we looked at each other and agreed that we had some hope again.

Gill has been just amazing – so professional, knowledgeable, patient, kind and non-judgemental.

We saw results immediately, with our son’s behaviours changing before our eyes. The violent behaviours are now pretty much eliminated, and we are all so much happier and united.

We now know that this approach really works, and we feel equipped to parent our son through many more difficult parts of life. We feel so safe and supported knowing that Gill is around should we ever need her wisdom and guidance!

Kerry & Nic

Accreditations & professional memberships

Member of The British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Therapies BABCP
Member of The NVR Association (Non-Violent Resistance